{"id":6337,"date":"2024-03-06T00:38:11","date_gmt":"2024-03-05T23:38:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.tibicon.net\/en\/?p=6337"},"modified":"2024-03-06T00:38:11","modified_gmt":"2024-03-05T23:38:11","slug":"want-people-to-find-you-interesting","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.tibicon.net\/en\/2024\/03\/want-people-to-find-you-interesting\/","title":{"rendered":"Want people to find you interesting?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Yes, when you are with people whose interest you want to catch, the best you can do is to keep quiet.<\/p>\n<p>Why?<\/p>\n<p><span class=\"parent-p-bottom-0\">Silence, in these cases, offers some advantages:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>it keeps you safe from saying things that do not fit the situation;<\/li>\n<li>it allows you to get useful information from the very person whose attention you want to catch;<\/li>\n<li>it makes your interlocutor feel like the focus of your attention.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>In short, it is a case of saying that silence is gold: and<\/p>\n<h3 style=\"text-align: center;\">if you want to attract people&#8217;s interest,<br \/>\nyou must be prepared to give it.<\/h3>\n<p>Don&#8217;t you think so?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Yes, when you are with people whose interest you want to catch, the best you can do is to keep quiet. 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